I would just like to repeat what has been said already. China is China not a state of the USA. Things are becomming more modern, but it will take time. It is not that long since Mao's grip on power ended and a more forward looking -open minded China was born.
Embrace China for all it's good points and keep an open heart and mind. China will never be America, why should it be?
Bad traffic, bad toilets, bad pollution.... yes, 1.3 billion people trying to join the modern world.